Ijya kurisha ihera ku rugo
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mugani "Ijya kurisha ihera ku rugo" ni umwe mu migani nyarwanda ifite inyigisho ikomeye ku mibanire y’abantu no ku buryo bwo kubaho neza. Uyu mugani wigisha ko umuntu agomba kubanza kwita ku bye bwite, abo babana cyangwa ibyo amukurikirana, mbere yo kujya kwita ku bandi cyangwa ibindi bintu.[1]
Inkomoko y’Umugani:
hinduraUyu mugani waturutse ku mico n’imigenzereze yo mu buzima bw’Abanyarwanda ba kera, aho inka zari ingenzi cyane mu mibereho. Iyo umuntu yajyaga kugaburira cyangwa kuragirira inka, yabanzaga kuziragirira hafi y’urugo aho afite ubushobozi bwo kuzitaho neza, mbere yo kuzishora kure.
Imiterere y’uyu mugani kandi ishobora kuba ishingiye ku buryo umuntu yagombaga kubanza kwita ku muryango we (urugo rwe) mbere yo gufasha abandi cyangwa kwirukira ibindi.
Ibisobanuro by'Umugani:
hindura- Ijya kurisha: Byumvikana nk’ikintu cyangwa umuntu ushaka kugera ku kindi cyiza cyangwa gufasha.
- Ihera ku rugo: Bivuga gutangirira hafi, aho wifitiye inshingano cyangwa aho ukeneye kwita mbere y’ahandi.
Bisobanuye ko mbere yo gufasha cyangwa kwita ku bandi, ugomba kubanza kwitaho ibyawe no gukora ku buryo ubuzima bwawe n’ubw’abari hafi yawe buba neza.
Inyigisho y'Umugani:
hindura- Kwita ku byawe bwa mbere: Uyu mugani uributsa ko umuntu adakwiye kwirengagiza inshingano ze bwite mu gihe ashaka gufasha abandi.
- Gutanga ubufasha buturutse ku bisosho bifatika: Gufasha abandi bigomba gushingira ku kuba wowe ufite ibyo ukeneye.
- Gushyira mu gaciro no gutegura neza: Kwibutsa abantu ko icyiza kigomba gutangira hafi kugira ngo n’abandi bagufashe neza.
Ingero zo Kuwukoresha:
hindura- Iyo umuntu ashaka gufasha abandi mu gihe ibye bwite bitaratungana, bamubwira bati: "Ijya kurisha ihera ku rugo, banza wite ku byawe."
- Iyo umuntu aharanira guharanira amahoro n’imibereho myiza y’abamwe ngo areke abandi, bamubwira bati: "Ntacyo wageraho udaheraho ku byawe, ijya kurisha ihera ku rugo."
Uyu mugani uracyakoreshwa cyane mu Rwanda, cyane cyane mu nyigisho zijyanye no kubana neza, gukorana ubushishozi, no kwibuka inshingano umuntu afite ku rugo rwe mbere yo kujya kure.